My word for 2024 was GRATITUDE. To help myself keep the focus on that word all year, I started keeping a gratitude journal on January 1, 2024, and I’ve been writing at least 3-4 things I’m grateful for every single day since then. I shared little snapshots of each month last year to hold myself accountable, and since I ended up enjoying these posts so much, I decided to continue them in 2025.
I’m only pulling one item from my gratitude journal per day to share here (okay, sometimes two or three), and some of the things are really big things like good health and good relationships, some things are humorous, and some things are the little things that most of the time go unnoticed. Overall, though, the purpose of this whole exercise is to remember that even on the very worst of days, there is ALWAYS something for which to be grateful.
Always.
In June I was grateful…
- For beautiful weather for our first beach day and the
most stunning crystal clear emerald water!
- That Brian takes our chairs out early in the morning
to get a good spot.
- For LaCo margaritas… and queso… and chips… and taco
salad. The best Mexican food
everrrr.
- For pickles… yes, pickles. I loveeee a pickle spear, especially
with my burgers from Duo’s at The Big Chill. And also, for a perfectly timed storm
that worked around our schedule so we could enjoy it from our balcony
after we were done doing all the things we wanted to do that day.
- For a good cup of coffee and a long evening beach
walk.
- For inner peace lately… I most definitely do not feel
peaceful about the things going on around us in this country, but somehow,
I’ve found some inner peace. Maybe
because of the longer, slower summer days?
I don’t know, but whatever the reason, I’m grateful.
- For another wonderful, safe trip with my little family
and lots of great memories to hold onto.
- For my Maui mug that Brian gave me for my birthday…
it’s my favorite one ever and I use it daily now.
- For an amazing new doctor who SEES ME and UNDERSTANDS
ME and has seen loads of people like me, and is confident that he can FIX
ME. After two whole years. FINALLY.
Praise Jesus. And for my
Daddy for taking more than three hours out of his day to get me there and
back safely.
- For three hours with Father Manny and two of my other
favorite people this morning on our coffee date. What a treat and an absolute
blessing. And for my father-in-law
who always takes the kids in when we ask… he always spends quality time
with them playing board games and laughing and having the best time. We are so blessed to have such an
amazing village.
- For a nice, clean car!! We took it to be washed and vacuumed
today, and we cleaned out all the trash and it looks amazing inside and
out. So fresh and so clean, clean!!
- For sweet summertime, slower days, and a more laidback
lifestyle so my brain can have a nice, long break. My stress and anxiety has plummeted more
than ever this summer, and I am loving it.
- For a successful first adjustment, even though it made
me feel awful for a few days.
- That my vertigo today after my adjustment was
minimal. While it was disheartening
to have three separate vertigo spins today, at least I didn’t wake up with
complete vertigo again like I did on July 11, 2023. I was so scared the adjustment may cause
that, but thankfully, it didn’t. And
while the vertigo sucked, it also let us know that we are in the right
place and doing the right thing because we now know for certain that it
was, indeed, my cervical neck that was the root cause.
- For my Daddy for always being a safe space to land,
for always supporting me in everything that I choose to do, and for being a
wonderful dad. And for Brian, for
being the best, hands-on dad to our babies. And for my father-in-law for loving on
our babies so well and always being so much fun when he has them
over. Happy Father’s Day to all of
them!
- For lots of fun with the kids today before my
adjustment.
- For our angel baby in heaven… today marks 15 years
since our loss, and there’s not a day that goes by that I don’t think of him
or her.
- For fewer side effects after today’s adjustment.
- For being able to drive the kids to music and take a
walk today after being dizzy and unsteady for days.
- For Brian for clearing the table, cleaning the guest
bathroom, and doing all the things that I normally do to prep for guests
because he knows that I cannot do them today. And for a wonderful evening with our
poker night crew!
- For my first SOLO walk since my adjustments
started! Yes, I was veering off to
the right again, and there were a couple of times that I thought I might
lose my footing, but I didn’t, and I feel stronger for getting out there
and going!
- For no neck tension for days. The rest of my back muscles may be
screaming at me from all these adjustments (it’s temporary, though), but
the neck tension that plagued me for years is slowly dissipating.
- For lots of pool time and fun in the sun with friends.
- That I didn’t even need an adjustment today because
mine is HOLDING. And for the
in-house masseuse’s magical hands for knowing exactly which muscles of
mine needed to be kneaded and stretched.
- For a night of live music watching my favorite band of
all time (Dave Matthews Band) play… for being able to see them 29 times…
that the show was able to go on in full despite a storm delay… for a safe
trip home in more storms.
- That I was able to sleep in until 9 AM after getting
home at 1:30 AM. Sleeping in is
truly one of my favorite things in life.
Such a luxury.
- For girl time with Jeannine – laughing until we cried,
reminiscing about good times – and also for hugging Equisha’s neck for the
first time in years.
- For a game of Scrabble with the fam. We don’t sit down and play games a lot,
but when we do, we always have fun!
- For an entire day of feeling completely normal… for the
first time in TWO WHOLE YEARS. I
had no vertigo, no dizziness, no unsteadiness, no boat-rocking, no pain
anywhere, no brain fog, no sensitivity to light, no headaches, no
migraines, no neck tension – NOTHING.
ALL DAY. I could cry I was
so happy.
- For a deer sighting in our neighborhood. We see them all the time on the side of
the road, but it’s rare to see them in our neighborhood up close like
that.
Happy Monday, y’all! What is something you’re grateful for today?
This month was an especially special one for you to be thankful for!
ReplyDeleteYes it was!
DeleteWhat a great month! I'm glad you had one day where your life was what it used to be like! Sounds like your treatments are working!!!
ReplyDeleteI am hopeful that they are! It's a lot of back and forth right now since each treatment stirs up the symptoms again, but in the long run, I'm really praying that it's all going to work out.
DeleteAll of your things to be grateful for made me smile. Sometimes it's just the little things like pickles. hehehe I am glad your treatment has gone so well and you are feeling completely normal!
ReplyDeleteHaha! Yes, I love pickles!! And that pickle on that burger at one of my favorite places at the beach definitely made me happy that day. ;o) And thank you! Yes, there is a lot of back and forth, but overall I feel like I'm heading in a positive direction.
DeleteI just love how you’re documenting your gratitude each month! What a sweet way to reflect on all the little (and big!) blessings.And I’m right there with you… so thankful for slow summer days and all the extra family time.
ReplyDeleteDocumenting gratitude has been such a game changer for me. It really does help me dwell on the good things more rather than dwelling on the bad or all of the things that could go wrong. And yes! I am going to be so sad when this summer is over. I'm just not ready for the daily grind again.
DeleteSo many really over the top things to be thankful for this month! I bet it feels SO GOOD to be feeling so good. I hope it keeps on holding for you and you have many, many more normal feeling days.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Joanne! YES! I hope I continue to move in a positive direction!
DeleteYou found such sweet things to be thankful for this month! Praise for a "normal" day with no vertigo issues!
ReplyDeleteYes!! A whole day!! First time in two whole years!!
DeleteI like that you are mentioning things you are grateful for and it's good that you have a father that supports you. Family is everything! OMG, I can't believe you've seen The DMB so many times, love their music esp., growing up. I've only seen them twice. /Madison
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