Wednesday, January 14, 2026

2026 New Year’s Goals + My Word for the Year

I’ve started typing the intro to this post at least 20 times, and each time I erased and completely rewrote it.  It’s weird because I’ve known for months what I wanted my word to be for 2026, but for some reason I’m having trouble articulating the reasons why I chose it.  Does that make sense?

I’m about to be vulnerable here (and wordy, although that’s nothing new – hahahaha), so bear with me…

I want to start by saying that I am so blessed – I have a wonderful husband, two amazing kids, and an incredible village of other family members and friends who love and care for all of us.  We are all healthy.  We have food on our table.  We have a roof over our heads.  We have every single thing we could ever need.  And I am so very grateful for all those things. 

But despite having all these things, the hardships we’ve had over the past 15 years have worn me down, and at times, overshadowed the good.  Maybe that is just adulthood?  I don’t know.  *Shrugs shoulders*


After sorting through all of it with my therapist, she helped me see that the things that happened that were out of my control these last 15 years – a miscarriage, a traumatic birth, multiple (serious) childbirth injuries, being told I may never walk unassisted again, not being able to fully care for my own first baby due to injuries from childbirth, horrific chronic pain for seven long years with no relief, constant tinnitus that started seven years ago that I likely am stuck with forever, a breast tumor scare (that ended up being, thankfully, benign), vertigo and unsteadiness and dizziness for more than two years, a few other issues I haven’t mentioned here on the blog + the never-ending stream of doctor appointments and doctors telling me they don’t know how to help me the last 15 years – all caused PTSD which resulted in my body getting stuck in a fight-or-flight response for years. 

This, in turn, caused massive anxiety and then, said anxiety caused a bunch of other physical issues throughout the years – panic attacks, neck tension, breathing issues, throat constriction, general dizziness, headaches, stomach issues, etc. – and I’ve been stuck in this vicious cycle of all. the. bad. things. ever since. 

So, while generally healthy from a typical standpoint (blood pressure, weight, cholesterol, no terrible diseases, etc.), all the issues listed above have still negatively impacted my daily life for years, and that, in turn, has affected my mental health in a very negative way. 

And I don’t say any of this to garner sympathy – trust me, life is good for the most part, and I am so grateful for all the good in my life – I only say these things to give a little overview of what led to my decision to choose my word for this year. 

After years of riding the struggle bus for a multitude of reasons, I am choosing a word that will not only help me focus on the good things in life but actually remember that I can also create the good things.  Therefore, my word for 2026 is…

OPALITE

Now.  If you’re not a Taylor Swift fan, then you have NO CLUE what I’m talking about right now.  So, I will tell you – Taylor Swift dropped a new album called The Life of a Showgirl back in October last year, and it’s, perhaps, the happiest album we’ve gotten from her in years.  After brooding for the last four albums (Folklore, Evermore, Midnights, and The Tortured Poets Department AKA all my favorite albums by her – LOL), you can tell she’s in a happier space, and I want to be in a happier space, too! 

One of the songs on the new album particularly inspired me, and it is titled Opalite.  When Taylor spoke about the meaning behind the song, she explained that Opalite is a man-made stone and she uses that as a metaphor for making your own happiness since we can’t just expect happiness to find us… we can make our own happiness, too.  And although Taylor refers to her love life in some of the lyrics, the concept can be applied to all aspects of life and hardships in general, not just love. 

Ultimately, the song is about finding lasting happiness through self-creation, growth, and resilience and choosing happiness in your own life even when things aren’t going your way… spoken straight from Taylor’s mouth to my ears.

Isn’t that great?  It ended up being one of my favorite songs on the whole album, and it just has aaaallll the happy vibes.  From first listen, it jumped out at me, and I knew it would be my word 2026. 

For funsies, here are the lyrics to the whole song…


I had a bad habit

Of missing lovers past
My brother used to call it
'Eating out of the trash'
It's never gonna last

I thought my house was haunted
I used to live with ghosts
And all the perfect couples
Said, "When you know you know."
And, "When you don't you don't."


And all of the foes and all of the friends
Have seen it before, they'll see it again
Life is a song, it ends when it ends
I was wrong

 

But my Mama told me
It's alright
You were dancing through the lightning strikes
Sleepless in the onyx night
But now the sky is opalite
Oh oh oh oh, oh my Lord
Never made no one like you before
You had to make your own sunshine
But now the sky is opalite
Oh oh oh oh oh

 

You couldn't understand it
Why you felt alone
You were in it for real
She was in her phone
And you were just a pose

And don't we try to love love
We give it all we got (we give it all we got)
You finally left the table
And what a simple thought
You're starving til you're not

 

And all of the foes and all of the friends
Have messed up before, they'll mess up again
Life is a song, it ends when it ends
You move on

 

And that's when I told you
It's alright
You were dancing through the lightning strikes
Sleepless in the onyx night
But now the sky is opalite
Oh oh oh oh, oh my Lord
Never met no one like you before
You had to make your own sunshine
But now the sky is opalite
Oh oh oh oh oh

 

This is just
A storm inside a teacup
But shelter here with me, my love
Thunder like a drum
This life will beat you up, up, up, up
This is just a temporary speed bump
But failure brings you freedom
And I can bring you love, love, love, love, love
Don't you sweat it, baby

 

It's alright
You were dancing through the lightning strikes
Sleepless in the onyx night
But now the sky is opalite
Oh oh oh oh, oh my Lord
Never made no one like you before, no
You had to make your own sunshine
But now the sky is opalite
Oh oh oh oh oh

 

I mean, dancing through the lightning strikes… this is just a storm inside a teacup?!  YES.  That just puts things right into perspective and makes me so happy even reading it.  And the song is even better when you listen because it has such a happy, boppy beat. 

Bottom line – there are so many things that can bring us down (the current news cycle sure isn’t doing anyone any favors), so that’s my goal for the year… to make my own happiness even in the midst of strife.  And I hope to share the journey here with all of you if I can figure out exactly how I want that to look.

Okay, let’s get into the goals…

 

Personal / Health / Wellness / Fitness / Beauty

Do more of what brings me joy.

Get my braces off once and for all!!!!

Completely taper off my vertigo meds. 

Continue working to eliminate dizziness, etc.

Implement new meditation practices.

Condense my daily quiet time. 

Finish reading the Bible and The Bible in a Year.

Make healthy changes to my diet.

Serve at our school and church.

Work out 3-5 times per week.

Walk / jog 350 miles.

Implement upper body strength workouts (if my doc approves it).

Read 24 books.

 

Appointments / Meetings / Other Requirements

Jacob complete Confirmation service hours.

Jacob celebrate the Sacrament of Confirmation.

 

Home / Organization / Planning

Clean out the house.

Deep clean the house.

List items to sell / donate as house is cleaned out.

Alleviate a few pain points around the house.

Work on some more house projects.

Clean out two large keepsake boxes in storage closet.

Wash and put away all of Maui’s old stuff.  Yes, it’s all still out 11 months later.  :o(

Finish updating all album artwork in iTunes.

Move some of my lists from paper printouts to my List Master app.

Reorganize my List Master app.

Record our year (more intentionally this year!) using the One Second a Day app.

Clean out my camera roll on my phone.

Tackle a few things from my Master To-Do List.

 

Blog / Social Media

Document my word of the year monthly on the blog.

Catch up on backlog of old Reels.  Sigh.

Create some evergreen content (recipes, organization, crafts, holidays).

Do more fun “get to know me” posts (Top 10 lists, throwback posts, etc.).

Work on year-end blog post (Ode to 2026) all year so I don’t get behind.

 

Fun Stuff!

Go to a few concerts.

Go to a couple of plays / shows.

Go to a couple of Georgia football games.

Aim to average at least one date night per month.

Aim to average at least one girls night per month.

Get together with our poker night friends once a month.

Try new restaurants / things in our city.

Go to Disney World.

Go to the beach.

Go to Nashville.

 

And those are my goals for 2026!  And here are a few things I saw on social media that inspired me...








If you want to see my goals from prior years check out the posts below!

 2016 Goals

2017 Goals








Happy Wednesday, y’all!  


Tuesday, January 13, 2026

Our Week - The One with the Last Day of Christmas Break, an Upper Cervical Chiropractor Visit, and the Start of Cleaning Out the House

We had one last day of Christmas break last week, and then it was back to the real world after 17.5 glorious days off.  I’m recapping it all today, so keep reading to see how we spent our week…

Monday, January 5

Monday was the last day of Christmas break, so the kids were home, and Brian was working from home, therefore, we had a full house.  B had to be up at 7:30 to get signed on at work and I ended up sleeping until 9:00, which was later than I’d wanted to get up.  I cannot wait to fully get off this vertigo medicine (it makes me so sleepy and makes it extra hard to wake up in the morning) because I’m hoping my body will go back to waking up closer to 8 or 8:15 rather than 8:45 or 9 on the weekends.  And yes, I know I can always set an alarm, but I don’t want to.  Hahahaha.

After breakfast, I finished my blog post for Tuesday and then we all had lunch together.  It was dreary and a little chilly Monday, so we all got outside.  The kids rode their scooters for a long time, and I got out for a walk. 

When I got home, I got showered and ready for the day and then I went to Walmart and Publix to pick up groceries for the week.  I put the groceries away when I got home, and then I started my blog post for Wednesday while I watched some of The Wedding Planner.

We had to get back in the swing of things since Tuesday was the kids’ first day back at school after more than two weeks off, so I cooked stir fry with chicken and a bunch of veggies to get our eating back on track, and we ate dinner a little earlier than we had been during the break.  I also made some blueberry muffins for the week ahead since the kids love them for breakfast and snacks.

We all cleaned up the kitchen and prepped for Tuesday after that and then I got some laundry put away and watered the indoor plants while the kids got showered. We watched one episode of Percy Jackson and the Olympians with the kids, and then it was off to bed for them since they had to be up early on Tuesday.

Brian and I watched one episode of Pluribus and then it was off to bed for us, too, since we had to be up early as well.  It was soooo nice to have that bonus day off so we could ease back into school and work with a short week!  And I always love having my babies home, so I never complain about that!

 

Tuesday, January 6

I struggled to fall asleep on Monday night since we were so far off our schedule, so 6 AM came way too fast.  I got showered and ready for the day and then dropped the kids at school, and then I headed home for a few minutes to work before I met with my therapist at 9:15 AM. 

After my appointment with her, I headed back home to work on my blog post a bit more, and then I had an early lunch since I had to be at the orthodontist at 12:15 to have my retainers made.  I had no idea what to expect with regard to that, but it was SO quick and easy.  They just scanned the inside of my mouth with that fancy wand they have as it takes a 3D picture of the inside of your whole mouth, and then I was on my way.  I was in and out in less than five minutes.

Since my appointment was so quick, I actually had time to go back home and work on my blog post some more, and then I headed to the school to pick up Olivia while Jacob stayed behind for e-sports. 

Olivia and I headed home, and she told me all about her day – while she hadn’t been excited to go back, she was super happy to be back with all her friends again, and she’d had a great day!

Olivia had some reading to do, so while she did that, I finished my book and I loved it.  I read Those Empty Eyes by Charlie Donlea and while it was my first read by this author, it certainly won’t be my last!

Olivia started a new elective this semester – Introduction to TV Production – and she wasn’t excited about it at all.  She was in art for the first semester and she just wasn’t ready to be done with it since it’s one of her favorite things.  However, after one day of Intro to TV Production, she came home chattering all about it, and she is SO excited about the semester ahead. 

She had her first assignment last week – to make a video.  It could be about anything at all and there were no requirements… the teacher basically just wanted to see where their skill level was.  Olivia decided to make a tutorial on how to make a fishtail bracelet with her Rainbow Loom, and y’all, I am so impressed with how her video turned out.  She did the step-by-step instructions, she added a title to the beginning (although, I did have to help her figure out how to do that since neither of us had ever used iMovie) and then she added music and did a voiceover with the verbal instructions.  It was seriously so good for her first one ever!  And it’s a good thing she got an iPad for Christmas because otherwise she would have been having to use my phone a LOT this semester for all her projects.

Olivia had dance class Tuesday evening, so I drove her there next, and when I got home, I walked a couple of miles.  Brian picked up Jacob from e-sports on the way home, and they swung by my father-in-law’s house to check out some golf clubs he was getting rid of. 

When they got home, I hung out with Jacob for a bit to see how his day was, and then I got showered and into my pajamas just in time to finish my blog post for the next day and then make dinner.

We had sausage, peppers, and onions tacos with chips and fruit, and when Brian got home with Olivia, we all sat down to eat. 

After dinner, the kids finished getting ready for bed, I helped Olivia with the title on her video, and then they got into bed.

Brian and I watched an episode of Pluribus, and then we headed to bed, too.  I was exhausted after getting back to all the things after vacation.

 

Wednesday, January 7

Wednesday morning, I dropped the kids at school and then I headed home to work.  I started and finished my blog post for Friday, and by the time I was done, I was literally falling asleep at my desk because I hadn’t slept very well Tuesday night either.  After struggling to stay awake for about 30 minutes, I realized it was stupid to try to power through, so I allowed myself to take a quick nap, which I NEVER do other than after I have an adjustment at the upper cervical chiropractor.

I curled up on our bed with my electric blanket, set an alarm for 30 minutes, and I was out like a light immediately.  I felt so refreshed when I woke up (45 minutes later after a couple of alarm snoozes), and my brain felt like it was working better than it was before my nap, so it was worth it.

I worked on the blog a bit more after lunch and then it was car line time.  On the way home, Jacob’s old piano teacher passed us on the highway on his motorcycle and he waved.  We ended up being next to each other at the red light on the exit, so the kids rolled down their windows and talked to him until the light turned green.  They were thrilled to see him, though.  We do see him sometimes on the way home as he takes the same route to work at the same time, but we hadn’t seen him in ages.

When we got home, Olivia worked on what little homework she had, and then she Facetimed with her friend Charleigh while Jacob designed some stuff on Scratch.  I took a quick walk, and then Olivia and I rolled down the windows and opened the sunroof and we sang our hearts out all the way to dance.  It was gorgeous outside on Wednesday – sunny and 74 degrees – so it was the perfect day to get some fresh air.

When I got home, I got showered, and then I made dinner for the boys and me – fettucine alfredo (the healthier version that I always make), steamed broccoli, and garlic cheese bread – and then we all sat down to eat together. 

After dinner, I intended to clean out the pantry, but I was so exhausted that I ended up sitting on the couch with the boys watching Wheel of Fortune.  I also caught up on the news from the day, and boy was it grim.  I’m sure all of you saw it, but an ICE agent shot a woman – an American citizen – in the face and killed her while she was in her vehicle in her neighborhood in Minnesota and then he called her a terrible name after he did it.  Then, our own government proceeded to try to gaslight the whole country by telling a different story than what we all saw and heard with our own eyes and ears.  What a sad, scary country we are living in right now. 

Brian left to pick up Olivia from dance shortly after that, and then Jacob got in the shower.  I got up to get organized for the next day, and then I made a to-do list for Thursday since there were quite a few things I wanted to tackle.

When Jacob got out of the shower, I joined him at the piano and I watched him play for a long time.  He has found a new composer who he loves, and I love him, too!  Jacob browsed some of his music and started playing a couple of the songs, and it was just the best watching him figure them out.  He can play by ear very well now, so it’s always interesting to observe.

After Brian and Olivia got home, she showered, both kids got in bed, and Brian and I watched another episode of Pluribus before bed.    

 

Thursday, January 8

Thursday was a day to knock out lots of things.  After I got the kids to school, I headed home and tackled the following:

 

-       Catching up on both email inboxes

-       Paying bills

-       Responding to blog comments

-       Catching up on blog reading

-       Getting gas in the car

-       Picking up a prescription from CVS

-       Dropping some Amazon returns at UPS

 

When I pulled up to get gas, the ground was wet by the only open pump.  It had been dreary and drizzly for days at that point, so I didn’t think anything of it.  A few minutes into pumping gas, the gas smell was so strong that I started wondering what was going on, and it was when I got back in my car and my foot slipped off the brake that I realized it was all gasoline on the ground and I had been standing in it the whole time. 

I immediately put the car back in park, got out and stomped my shoes off, and then dried them with a tissue.  Then I took a handwipe that I had in my console and scrubbed the bottoms of them as best I could.  Unfortunately, that did absolutely nothing and I had to roll the windows down for the rest of the duration in the car because it smelled so strongly of gas in there.

When I got home, I spent a whole hour pulling the mat out of the car and scrubbing it down and scrubbing the bottoms of my shoes over and over.  As I type this, it’s been four days since it happened and both the mat and the shoes STILL smell like gas, even though I scrubbed both down with Dawn dishwashing liquid, baking soda, Clorox hand wipes (the shoes, not the mat), and various other things.  I’m worried both could be ruined forever, so if anyone has any miraculous solutions for getting gasoline smell out of cloth or off rubber, please let me know.  It’s so weird that the scent is clinging to the rubber soles of my shoes so badly.  I thought that was going to be an easy cleanup!

By the time I was done doing that, I didn’t have a whole lot of time left before I had to leave for the car line, so I ate a quick lunch, finished catching up on blog reading, and I started cleaning out my closet, but I didn’t get very far since it was time to pick up the kids from school.

We saw Mr. Joseph on the way home again, and the kids were excited to wave at him and make crazy faces at him (LOL), and then we headed to music lessons.  I sat in with Olivia this week, and she worked some more on her acoustic version of The Fate of Ophelia by Taylor Swift.  Jacob worked on some new songs by that composer he loves and then we headed home.  On a completely different note... tell me she's a dancer without telling me she's a dancer... (she sits like this with her feet completely turned out like she's in first position.  Haha.)

I grabbed a cup of hot tea and did my quiet time and then when Brian got home from work, I got out for a quick walk.  I showered and then he and I made breakfast for dinner together.  We had some leftover champagne from New Year’s Eve that was on its way out, so we made mimosas with our brinner.

The college football playoff game was on Thursday night, so we watched the end of ESPN College GameDay followed by the game, and I cleaned out the pantry while the kids showered.

Olivia Facetimed with Charleigh and Maren for a bit while Jacob showered, and then the four of us sat down to start another episode of Percy Jackson and the Olympians. 

After the kids went to bed, Brian and I watched some more football and I read for a bit, and then I went to bed at my usual time while Brian watched the end of the game since it was close.  Since Georgia wasn’t playing, I wasn’t going to lose sleep over it.  Haha.

 

Friday, January 9

Friday morning, I dropped the kids at school, went home to have a cup of tea, and then Brian and I headed to my upper cervical chiropractor appointment.  It had been a full month since I’d last been, and the good news was that my atlas was still in place and he didn’t have to adjust it at all.  He said my neck looked good and my leg check was good, too.  When he checked each vertebra individually, he could tell that my lower back was having some trouble (I had thrown my back out at the end of the December, so I had expected that he’d see some issues there), and he did a few adjustments to my SI joints as well as my lower spine. 

When I tell you I felt like a new person walking out of there, I am serious!  My gait felt more natural, my knees stopped hurting, and my lower back stopped hurting completely after that adjustment, too.  He has been such a blessing and it’s such a relief that he doesn’t do those standard back cracks that regular chiropractors do.  Since he uses that little tool, his adjustments are gentle and precise, and I always feel like I’m in good hands.

He did say that my upper back muscles are still tight, but they haven’t been bothering me at all, so we are just going to leave them alone for now.  We were in and out in 15 minutes and then we hit the road to head back home.

We did make a quick stop by Hobby Lobby in that city because I was hoping that they still had some of their clearance Christmas stuff, but unfortunately, it was already completely packed away. 

When we got home, I was able to work.  Usually after my UCC adjustments, I feel exhausted and dizzy for the rest of the day (which is normal), but since he didn’t have to adjust my atlas, I felt great for the rest of the day.

I started and finished my blog post for the following Monday, I prepped my blog post for Tuesday, I read blogs, and I worked some more on cleaning out my closet. 

When the kids and I got home, I read for a bit, and I did my quiet time.  The kids got everything put away from the school week, they tidied their things around the house, and then they settled in for some lazy time.  Jacob played video games with one of his friends on FaceTime and Olivia FaceTimed with several of her friends. 

Brian stepped out to pick up pizza for dinner, and I worked some more on cleaning out my closet.  I was ruthless this time and I let go of a lot of tops that I’ve been holding onto for years.  I think I got rid of 47 tops total, a bunch of which were just basic tank tops and t-shirts, but it’s nice to have the extra space in my closet and a bunch of free hangers.  I tend to hoard clothes because I’ve been the same size for 25 years, and I have a hard time getting rid of something that still fits even if I don’t wear it anymore.  I have tops in my closet that are 20+ years old… as a matter of fact, I still have a sweater and a skirt that I’ve had since I was 19.  Lol.  And no, I didn’t get rid of either of those in this purge because I still wear them, although not very often. 

When Brian got home, we all ate dinner and then the kids got showered.  While they showered, I read for a bit and then we finished the episode of Percy Jackson and the Olympians that we had started the night before.

We’ve been making our way through some of the old 90s and early 2000s movies with the kids as they become age appropriate, and Friday night, we decided to show them Oceans 11.  It’s one of my faves and I hadn’t seen it in a while, so it was fun watching it all over again.  We only got halfway through it because we started it so late, but we were able to finish it the next night.

After the kids were in bed, Brian and I started season two of Platonic, and then we went to bed.  If you’re looking for something HILARIOUS, Platonic makes both of us laugh out loud every single time.  It’s a little tacky and the language is definitely rated R, but dang, that show is funny.

 

Saturday, January 10

Saturday morning, I made waffles for breakfast, and then I tackled a bunch of random, tiny tasks in my office.  Brian and Jacob went to get haircuts, and Olivia Facetimed with a bunch of friends in a big group chat.

We had a storm coming that had the potential for tornadoes since it was in the 70s last week, so I went out on the back porch to check on my car mat and my shoes that had gotten covered in gasoline a few days before that.  Both of them still smelled soooo strongly of gasoline, so I took a few minutes to scrub both with more Dawn dish washing liquid and baking soda, and then I left them out to dry… again.

I got inside just as the storm hit, and it ended up being mild… just a bunch of rain and some strong winds, but nothing bad at all. 

I spent the next hour finishing up cleaning out my closet, getting everything bagged up, and getting it dusted, and then we all had lunch together.

The kids showered and did their laundry after that, and then Jacob had some studying to do.  I spent some time changing out the remaining hangers in my closet that don’t have the grooves on the top.  I have a lot of tank tops and shirts that fall off the hangers if they don’t have the grooves, and Brian hates the hangers with the grooves, so I did some swapping to rid my closet of the plain hangers once and for all.  Was it a task that was super important?  No, not at all.  But was it a task that I was happy to check off my list?  Yes.  And now I won’t have to deal with shirts falling off hangers in my closet all the time, so it was nice to alleviate that pain point.  Definitely a first world problem, though, in the scheme of things.  ;o)

After that was done, I finally took the time to sit in my office and think about how to display my Taylor Swift autographed CD.  I’d already purchased the frame for one of my autographed copies and had the glass changed out to UV protective glass, but I hadn’t taken the time to figure out which autographed photo to frame, so I finally took the time to think it over and get it in the frame.  After that, I had to find a place in my office to display it, and that ultimately led to me restyling all my acrylic shelves to make room.  If you give a mouse a cookie… ;o)

I am very particular about decorating and styling and all that, so it took a full hour of me tinkering around with all the stuff to get the shelves just right, and I’m happy with the outcome.  I love being able to display books and art and photos right there.  

Before

After


By the time that was done, it was laaaate and I had to get ready for Mass, so I got showered and ready and we headed out the door.

After Mass, Momma, Daddy, Alex (my littlest brother), Mama Cass, Aunt Joy, and Uncle Greg + our family of four all went out to dinner… the usual crew.  We decided to go to the pub down the street from church instead of Mexican, and we ended up having to wait for a table, but thankfully, we didn’t have to wait long.

When we got home, we finished watching Oceans 11 – the kids loved it (although Olivia wasn’t as impressed as Jacob was) – and then Brian and I watched a couple more episodes of Platonic before going to bed.

 

Sunday, January 11

Sunday morning, we slept in, had cinnamon rolls for breakfast, and then I went to my office to get my usual Sunday things done – planning the week ahead, watching my Sunday morning sermon, and transferring photos from the week from my phone to my computer.

Once all that was done, I got all the laundry sorted because it was overflowing, and then I went ahead and started a load to get a jump start on it.  Once the clothes were in the wash, I bundled up and headed out to take a walk.  That storm on Saturday blew in a cold front and although it was sunny, it was cold and windy. 

When I got home, I flipped the laundry to the dryer, and then it was time to get showered and ready for the day.  We had lunch at my mother-in-law's and father-in-law's house, and the rest of the afternoon was spent staying cozy inside organizing the pictures I’d transferred to my computer, starting on this blog post, and watching The Wedding Planner while I worked. 

We had Sunday dinner at my parents’ house, minus my uncle and his girlfriend since she has been sick, and Momma made our good luck meal for the new year.  We usually have it on January 1, but we all took that day off to be lazy and we got takeout instead. 

When we got home, the kids got into bed early, and Brian and I finished the weekend with two more episodes of Platonic.

Happy Tuesday, y’all!

Monday, January 12, 2026

A Year of Gratitude - December 2025 Snapshot

My word for 2024 was GRATITUDE.  To help myself keep the focus on that word all year, I started keeping a gratitude journal on January 1, 2024, and I’ve been writing at least 3-4 things I’m grateful for every single day since then.  I’ve been sharing these monthly snapshots for two full years now, and after two years, I’ve decided that this December recap will be the last one to make room for a new monthly series that I am considering starting in 2026 (emphasis on considering) based on my word for this year that I’ll be sharing soon.

With that said, let’s get to the last monthly gratitude recap!  December was a fantastic month, and by far, my favorite of the whole year.  The Christmas season was peaceful and fun and relaxing and just plain wonderful for our family, and I’m very grateful for that with all the heartache and strife and craziness in the world right now.


In December I was grateful…

 

  1. For 18 years married to Brian today!  Happy anniversary!
  2. That Maui was born on this day 16 years ago.  We miss her every day, but we’re so thankful for the 15 years we had with her.  Happy heavenly birthday to our tiny girl. 
  3. For the new peppermint Christmas quilt that I found at Target… it makes me so happy to see it every single time I walk in our room and see it on the bed!
  4. For hazelnut rolled wafers from Target.  Oh my goodness, they are one of my favorite holiday treats!  I look forward to grabbing them every December since they’re seasonal.
  5. That Olivia has such a compassionate heart.  Her best friend lost her grandfather this week and the visitation was tonight, and Olivia wanted to spend her Friday night supporting her friend at the funeral home.
  6. For a Georgia football win against Alabama!  SEC Champions back-to-back!
  7. For my mother-in-law’s cheesy potatoes.  They are one of my most favorite things she makes.  The ultimate comfort food!
  8. For one-on-one time with Brian on our shopping day date today.  We finished almost all the Christmas shopping and I’m grateful for that, too!
  9. For my rainbow favorite things Christmas tree and my rainbow bottle brush trees in my office.  Both add so much fun and color to my space and it’s just so dang cheerful in here this time of year!
  10. For all the days that I can breathe normally.  I’m struggling with my asthma today – very short of breath – and it makes me so grateful for all the days that I don’t have issues!
  11. For happy mail!  I got a card and a note from one of my favorite people today and it made me so happy!
  12. For the best night at the Teddy Swims concert with Brian and the kids.  We always have so much fun on our adventures together!  And I’m so grateful that the kids are so go-with-the-flow when we travel and do fun stuff!
  13. That Olivia overcame her fear of performing alone on stage, that she nailed her guitar recital, and that we got to see her shine on stage today.  Gosh, I’m so proud of her!
  14. For time with my Mama Cass.  She is one of my favorite people in the whole world and I know she’s not going to be around forever, so I cherish every moment with her.  She is such a gift.  And she is also a hoot!  Haha.  I just love her so much.
  15. For my electric blanket.  It has been so cold, and my body just doesn’t produce enough heat to keep warm, so I’m grateful for outside sources of heat!
  16. For walks with my Boo.  I always love having one-on-one time with him.  He is just so smart and creative, and I love hearing all the things bouncing around in his brain.  He is a wealth of knowledge and he is full of random facts and I learn so much from him!
  17.  That I didn’t wake up sick today since my throat was feeling a little questionable last night.
  18. That I got all the Christmas wrapping done and I’m officially prepared for Christmas with the exception of a couple of smaller tasks… and I’m done a whole week early at that!
  19. For 17.5 days off ahead… it’s the start of my favorite two weeks of the entire year!  Bring on all the eating, drinking, sleeping, and being merry!  We love Christmas break!
  20. For sunshine and warmth outside today to warm my bones.  What a beautiful day to take a walk!
  21. For delicious pizza and cozy vibes!
  22. That I have felt really good for several days in a row – hardly any dizziness or unsteadiness recently!
  23. For the movie The Family Stone.  It is just perfect in every way.  The cast, the storyline, the honesty and vulnerability of each of the characters.  Gosh, I just love it so much.  And it hit extra hard this year since Diane Keaton passed away in October.  :o(
  24. For everyyyything!!!!  Today is my favorite day of the whole year and I am feeling extra festive!!  Lazy movie time in the morning, candy cane cookies for a snack, my electric blanket, hot cinnamon tea, Christmas Mass with the whole family, Momma’s white chicken chili, Manhattans, Christmas tree lights, Home Alone, and precious time around the tree with my whole family… and that my brother and sister-in-law and the kids joined us this year!
  25. That God sent His one and only Son for all of us.  For lots of wonderful time with family today.  For the looks on the kids’ faces when they opened their special gifts.  For the tears in Olivia’s eyes when she saw her gift.  Gah, it’s moments like those that make parenting so extra special. 
  26. For time today with my father-in-law and the rest of Brian’s family… especially our niece and nephew since they don’t get to join us as often as they used to.
  27. For beautiful weather today so we could eat outside for Christmas with my mother-in-law and the rest of Brian’s family. 
  28. For ice packs and ibuprofen for my back since I pulled muscles while putting away the Christmas decorations. 
  29. For another year with my little brother… happy birthdayyyy!
  30. For a clean and tidy house, that I tackled all that I wanted to do over the break without sacrificing family time or relaxation, that the kids had fun sleepovers with their friends, and for a full house!
  31. That we all stayed well for all the holidays and for a peaceful end to a very tumultuous year. 

 

Happy Monday, y’all!  I hope you enjoyed reading these posts as much as I enjoyed writing them. 

What is something you’re grateful for today?